This is the face of our families Christmas miracle......Tanner Jack.
Tanner's biological family is Native American and they come from the Oneida and Navajo tribes. Tanner loves his culture and history! I learned more that evening about the Navajo culture then I ever thought I would and it was fascinating.
My parents attempted to adopt Tanner 20 years ago when he was a brand new baby. After three months of fighting in court to be able to make him a part of our family my parents lost the battle and he was taken from our home.
He returned to his biological family, and we had contact with them for the first year of Tanner's life. Much to our families disappointment contact was lost with Tanner's family and we no longer new where he was or who was taking care of him.
On Christmas Eve an incredible woman, LaRae, came to my parents home telling them that she was Tanner's mom (legal guardian/foster mom - whatever you want to call her, she's Tanner's mom!). I was lucky enough to be there as she told of how Tanner entered their lives 10 years ago and the miraculous circumstances through which she came to find out about my parents and their role in Tanner's life.
She told us story after story about Tanner and all about the amazing person that he has become.
Needless to say we were in utter shock and filled with gratitude for LaRae and her family.
Tanner's biological family is Native American and they come from the Oneida and Navajo tribes. Tanner loves his culture and history! I learned more that evening about the Navajo culture then I ever thought I would and it was fascinating.
This is a photo of Tanner unwrapping his moccasins.
Although Tanner was born with cerebral palsy and does not have the full use of his legs he will walk when the incentive is good enough.
His mom promised him that if he would walk across the stage at his high school graduation she would make him moccasins. He had six months to prepare himself.
Like any teenager he told her no, and then changed his mind four days before graduation.
LaRae hand made these gorgeous moccasins in four days; tanning her own leather and sewing every bead by hand!
The moccasins represent Tanner's spirit animal, the wolf, with paws on the sides and wolf eyes on the tops.
Although Tanner was born with cerebral palsy and does not have the full use of his legs he will walk when the incentive is good enough.
His mom promised him that if he would walk across the stage at his high school graduation she would make him moccasins. He had six months to prepare himself.
Like any teenager he told her no, and then changed his mind four days before graduation.
LaRae hand made these gorgeous moccasins in four days; tanning her own leather and sewing every bead by hand!
The moccasins represent Tanner's spirit animal, the wolf, with paws on the sides and wolf eyes on the tops.
He wore his moccasins on graduation day walked across the stage.
This experience, like no other, has reaffirmed to me that God has a hand in our lives, and he cares about our happiness. After twenty years of unrest our family was not only given peace and closure, but the chance to be reacquainted with the son and brother we thought we'd lost.
I will be forever grateful for the circumstances that brought me home for Christmas in 2009, and for the opportunity to partake of Tanner's unconditional love and courageous spirit.
We love you Tanner!
This experience, like no other, has reaffirmed to me that God has a hand in our lives, and he cares about our happiness. After twenty years of unrest our family was not only given peace and closure, but the chance to be reacquainted with the son and brother we thought we'd lost.
I will be forever grateful for the circumstances that brought me home for Christmas in 2009, and for the opportunity to partake of Tanner's unconditional love and courageous spirit.
We love you Tanner!
15 comments:
Wow...that is very cool. I'm glad you all were finally able to find out what happened with Tanner and that you were able to be home for it.
That is so awesome. We have told our children about him, I can't wait to tell them this, especially my Tanner.
Thank you for sharing with us.
That is so awesome. We have told our children about him, I can't wait to tell them this, especially my Tanner.
Thank you for sharing with us.
Geez, make me cry and all! I am so happy that all happened for you guys! I love the family picture you have now- your dad looks like he's about to burst. In a good way. I can't believe she made those moccasins in four days! That's amazing. I wish we could have seen you guys while you were here, but you'll be back.
I remember you telling me about him! How great to finally meet him again.
That is so neat. Truly a Christmas miracle.
I am so happy for your family to have found closure and joy. We had a similar experience at church on Sunday. By chance we met the man who baptized Ben's dad in Germany over 30 years ago. Turns out he lives in our branch.
amazing molly, i remeber when all f that happened, i was in utah during a lot of that. what a great experience. I can't wait to meet him.
You totally made me cry. I distinctly remember talking to you and how much your family loved him. It especially hit home since I had my own little baby who was part of my life, my child, for 5 months who had to go back to her own mother. It gives me hope that once day when she is older, that she can meet her other family,(us)that loved her and desperately wanted to keep her. I pray for that every day and hopefully I too, can have my own miracle.
How amazing!! I remember both of your parents talking about Tanner years ago, how wonderful to have things come all the way around! I am SO happy for your family!
Thanks for sharing that Molly, It was very touching. Glad to see that you have all reunited.
Natalie shared the story with me after yo guys went to lunch and I sat and cried like a baby. Like I said to your mom all I can say is WOW! It was good to see you and your little one at Christmas!
Thanks for sharing, Molly. Very inspirational.
That is such an amazing story! So glad you shared. I love the family pic of your parents with all their kiddos!
Molly, it was so fun to met you and your little family. It was as if we have known you forever. The pictures turned out beautiful. Tanner enjoyed the blog and was touched by your comments. God is with us ALL every step of the way
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